If you are or have been married, what is the toughest part of marriage for you? If you wish to not answer for your marriage, what has been the toughest part of marriages you have seen?
If you're not married, what do you think will be the toughest part of marriage?
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blending two personalities. not getting your way all the time and yet getting your way some of the time.
The hardest part of my marriage has been dealing with my partner's family. We were raised in very different families and dealing with their habits and customs has been hard.
A lot of it is truly the different approaches and thinking patterns btw males and females. I would also piggy-back with anony 10:38 that different family habits, customs, morals, comfortablness with society issues, education, etc, all of these present challenges to each partner in a marriage. These items also make a difference depending on a what age a person marries and whether it's a first or additional marriage. Also agreeing on a level of sexual comfortablness and frequency pattern btw partners is vitual for long term itimacy.
Learning how to communicate on terms that are unfamiliar. It is no new revelation to anyone that men and women are fundamentally different in the way we process and rationalize certain sets of information. The toughest part for me is learning how to communicate what I believe in a way that can be processed and understood by my spouse
Personality clash, we are nearly complete opposites.
Marriage is hard, trying to think of spouse before oneself. It is hard to think of and satisfy someone elses needs above your own, constantly. if they seem to be a user it can wear you down. In the end tho, when you give unselfishly it is always best. It is as God would have us to do. It is what God has done and continues to this day to do to us who are imperfect. He loves us unconditionally and that is as we should do with our spouse as well.
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